Unpopular Wedding Traditions You Can Totally Skip

Which Wedding Traditions Do You Actually Need?

Weddings come with a ton of traditions — some fun, some a bit outdated. But you don’t have to say “yes” to everything just because it’s expected. In fact, skipping some customs can make your day feel way more personal and less stressful.

Common Traditions You Can Skip (And Why)

• The Bouquet Toss: If you’re not into it, don’t do it. It’s a bit outdated and often awkward.

• Wearing White: Do what feels right — if you want a coloured dress or something casual, go for it.

• Matching Bridesmaids: Your best mates don’t have to wear the same dress if that’s not their style.

• Large Guest Lists: Less can be more. Intimate weddings can feel way more meaningful.

• Giving Favours: Guests love memories, not always trinkets.

How Skipping Traditions Helps

When you ditch the stuff that doesn’t fit your vibe, you get a wedding day that’s truly yours. More time, less pressure, and more space to enjoy what really matters — your partner, family, and friends.

At Leonards Hill Estate, we help couples design celebrations that truly reflect them. Our wedding option works beautifully for gatherings of 30 or 200 guests, giving you the freedom to make the day completely your own.

Book a tour and start planning a wedding that’s all about you — no cookie-cutter stuff allowed.